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		<title>Dream house</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A recent Jim Sollisch column in the Wall Street Journal drolly suggests HGTV bears responsibility for the housing crisis by making dual bathroom sinks, updated kitchens and walk-in closets appear so necessary to happy home ownership that there are few among us who would deign to inhabit a lesser house. Suddenly no one but the most [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A recent Jim Sollisch column in the <a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB123094453377450603.html">Wall Street Journal</a> drolly suggests HGTV bears responsibility for the housing crisis by making dual bathroom sinks, updated kitchens and walk-in closets appear so necessary to happy home ownership that there are few among us who would deign to inhabit a lesser house.</p>
<blockquote><p>Suddenly no one but the most slovenly and unambitious were satisfied with their houses. It didn&#8217;t matter if you lived in an apartment or a gated community, one episode of &#8220;House Hunters&#8221; or &#8220;What&#8217;s My House Worth?&#8221; and you were convinced you needed more. More square feet. More granite. More stainless steel appliances. More landscaping. More media rooms. More style. You deserved it.</p></blockquote>
<p>I&#8217;ve been an apologetic HGTV junkie for years, despite my frustration at watching 20-somethings embark on their first house search with a list of expectations and requirements most people twice their age have long since learned to live without.  And comfortably.<span id="more-18"></span></p>
<p>Over and over, show after show, they offer the same tired phrases about master bathrooms that don&#8217;t cut it because they&#8217;re too small or don&#8217;t have the double basins essential to civilized living. Or the houses that get jettisoned from the list because they don&#8217;t have  dual offices or enough bathrooms to accommodate every family member. Or the cute little jokes about the walk-in closet being just adequate for her clothes and shoes.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s an entitlement mentality, the same one evidenced on TLC&#8217;s &#8220;Say Yes to the Dress,&#8221; where 24-year-old schoolteachers try mightily to keep to a $5,000 budget for a strapless wedding gown.  Or the penchant of middle-school girls &#8212; whose  &#8220;income&#8221; derives from the occasional babysitting job &#8212; for luxury leather goods.</p>
<p>Where did it come from? Maybe the <em>Journal</em> is right. Let&#8217;s blame HGTV or E! or the hundreds of other outlets that so relentlessly traffic in reports of excess that we all begin to think it&#8217;s our rightful due.</p>
<p>Somewhere along the way, the average Jane or Joe decided if<em> it </em>&#8211; granite counter tops, a $50,000 wedding, a palacial home &#8212; was good enough for celebrities, hereditary royals and other rich folk, it was good enough for them. Whether they could afford it or not. After all, that&#8217;s what 100 percent financing and hefty credit card limits are for, right?</p>
<p>As best as I can determine, the Age of Entitlement arrived  some time in the 1990s.  Until then, a middle-class kid still knew their limits. Even the wealthy were content with laminate counter tops and a beater car for getting back and forth to high school.</p>
<p>For a real eye-opener, check out <em> Ordinary People,</em> the 1980 Academy award-winning film about  dysfunctional family  life in the upscale suburb of Lake Forest. The wealthy lifestyle depicted is modest by today&#8217;s standards. Really, really modest.</p>
<p>Sure, the streets are manicured and the family home imposing, but the kitchen isn&#8217;t much different than the one in my working-class parents&#8217; house and the furnishings lack today&#8217;s upscale design aesthetic.</p>
<p>The tax attorney father goes for his morning jog in standard-issue sweats, not $75 anti-microbal, moisture-wicking Elastene running pants. And his high school son knocks around in plaid shirts, ratty sweaters and no-name jeans.</p>
<p>Clearly, the definition of &#8220;the good life&#8221; has change radically in the last generation and along with it, the expectations of every man, woman and child in America &#8212; expectations fueled by HGTV, if Sollisch has it right.</p>
<p>But as foreclosure rates spiral one thing seems certain:  House Hunters and those other HGTV offerings may be reality shows,  but the life they depict is far from realistic.</p>
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